My Very First Valentine’s Day: Recounting my Best Date Yet!

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My amazing cappuccino from the Filling Station!

This past Friday, my boyfriend took me on the best day-long date I have ever been on so far in my life! Of course, it was on Valentine’s Day, but it wasn’t the holiday that mattered, but rather it was making lifelong memories with him that took my breath away at the end of the day. Since I knew my boyfriend was planning on an amazing day trip to Temecula Wine Country and Pechanga Casino, a favorite place of ours to go for some low-risk fun at the penny slot machines, I wanted to have my own stamp on the day, and took him out to breakfast at the Filling Station restaurant in the Old Towne Orange Circle before he had his two morning classes. He had an amazing breakfast sandwich with spinach, eggs and bacon, while I indulged in decadent cappuccinos and amazing savory Eggs Benedict with hash-browns! It was definitely filling and a great hearty start to this amazing day!

However, the waitress at Filling Station was less than great at customer service – it took us over 20 minutes for our check to be processed! And funnily enough, the waitress remarked to us as we were leaving (since the hostess graciously ran our check) that we were her “lucky charms!” This may have been a nice pleasantry to hear while leaving a restaurant, but at the rate of her service, we could only assume that it was a failed attempt to deflect her recognition of fault from ignoring our table in favor of only one other table on the other side of the restaurant. As the determined person I am, I vowed to my boyfriend that the rest of the day would not reflect that poor service, and profusely apologized for what happened, even though I had no control over it! After that debacle, I dropped my boyfriend off at his classes and headed back to his apartment to wait until he was finished with them and we would head down to Temecula!

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Eggs Benedict! Yum!

Little did my boyfriend know, while he was at class learning about wildly difficult and complex mathematical formulas and theories, I was frantically whipping up a batch of Valentine’s themed Funfetti cupcakes and picking up his Valentine’s Day gift from Target! He was very surprised when he returned home to find his gifts sitting out for him on his kitchen table!

Now, one of my gifts to my boyfriend was a small planner that had weekly and monthly planning pages for 2014. While this may not seem like the most amazing and romantic gift ever, I knew that he would really appreciate it for much longer than just the holiday itself. Recently, my boyfriend had been very stressed since our spring semester still started and he had a lot on his plate from being on the executive board of his fraternity and starting new classes as well as working on recreating the economic association at our college. Since he didn’t have a planner, he often would stress out from not being able to visualize his weekly schedule until the day of each event, and I think that attributed to a lot of his stress. I hope that the planner will help him be able to plan his weeks a bit better and allow himself to figure out where he can have some free time to himself to de-stress and not worry about what is coming next. Making daily lists of chores, meetings and other items will hopefully let him check things off one by one and break up his busy schedule into more doable chunks.

I was not expecting my boyfriend to give me even more gifts than taking me to Wilson Creek Winery and Pechanga, but he did! I opened my Valentine’s day card from him to find a small booklet. Upon more detailed inspection I realized it was a COUPON BOOK! Michael gave me one of the most thoughtful gifts I have ever received – a coupon book full of free trips to my favorite restaurants, free candlelit dinners and bubble baths, as well as shoulder rubs when I get stressed out! What impressed me even more was that there were also coupons for going out to dinner, going to a party, and happy hour! That showed me that he wanted me to be able to let him take care of me whenever I needed a break from my busy schedule as well as him being comfortable enough to let his life be dictated by my choices for a little while.

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My OOTD for Valentine’s Day!

 

Next stop: Wilson Creek Winery in Temecula! After the 2 hour drive, we arrived at the beautiful winery for an amazing lunch and a bottle of one of their amazing wines. Unsure of what was considered appropriate wear for the winery, I decided on a one shoulder neon coral colored top from Lilly Pulitzer, dark wash skinny jeggings from White House|Black Market, and my go-to Coach gladiator Sandals. As it turns out, I was dressed perfectly, especially since it was about 90 degrees in Temecula once we arrived! (Thank goodness we sat under the shade with fans around to keep the breeze up!) The scenery was picture perfect, but would have been much better if the grape vines were still ripe! While we were there, I indulged in an amazing romaine salad with feta cheese and all of the traditional caesar salad fixings as well as a slew of bread with decadent sundried tomato butter to go with it! As a butter fanatic – I was very impressed at how amazing the butter tasted! Below are a few more pictures of our afternoon in Temecula! I had an amazing time finally feeling like an adult, and enjoying grown up dates in exchange for the tried and true dinner and a movie dates that are so common among college age people. I definitely felt love and romance in the air, and had great conversations with my boyfriend throughout the afternoon before heading out to the casino!

 

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Finally, Michael and I headed down the road to Pechanga for a few hours of gambling. While this may not be one of the more romantic date ideas for Valentine’s Day, we definitely had a good reason for going! Pechanga was offering an awesome Valentine’s Day deal for slot players, with $100 being given away to one lucky slot player each minute from 2pm-10pm, and Michael was definitely keen on getting a shot at that money! While we didn’t win the $100, I still came out a winner after three hours of gambling on penny and fifteen cent slots! I had $2 in club dollars left from my players card, so I only gave a dollar of my own money during that time, and came out with 13x my winnings with a take home of $13!!This was my biggest win yet and I stopped soon after, too nervous to lose my progress! (It is gambling after all, it can happen in a heartbeat!)

After a few hours, our amazing Valentine’s Day was coming to an end, and we headed back home. Once arriving home, Michael and I did what any normal couple would do – enjoy the last few hours of the day watching silly TV shows together and finishing off the bottle of wine we had brought home with us after lunch. The amount of love I felt through that day was unbelievable, and I definitely can see myself with Michael in the future, creating so many more memories on amazing dates and travels! This Valentine’s Day was my first proper one (see my Pre-Valentines Day post here!) and I couldn’t have been any more happy than I was and still am. I want to thank my boyfriend for being so amazing and thoughtful, and tell him that I couldn’t have pictured a better way to celebrate our first Valentine’s Day as a couple in the same place!

 

 

 

 

 

Preparing for My First Real Valentine’s Day

In my adult life so far I have had a few boyfriends, but have never once gotten to celebrate Valentine’s day with any of them. I’ve even been with my current boyfriend for over a year and a half, yet haven’t gotten the chance to spend V-day with him!

So, admittedly, I’m not sure what to expect on this love filled Friday, now only 4 days away. What I know for sure is that my boyfriend Michael and I are going to drive to Temecula and have a great lunch at a winery and end the day with some gambling at Pechanga casino.

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I’m extremely excited about what our day has planned in terms of events, but what I’m more unsure of is how the emotions I feel will affect the day. This is after all my first Valentines day, and I am already mentally preparing myself for an outpouring of love and happy emotions. There will also be a surprise, undoubtedly something that will embarrass me even though my boyfriend has convinced me otherwise, since I turn into a beet as soon as a lot of attention is focused on me.

What I am most nervous about is what I will give to my boyfriend as a valentines gift. I realize that the true meaning behind the holiday is sharing love with those you are close with and not about just giving chocolates or roses that will be gone in a week or so. To me, I see Valentine’s day as a day that you should spend with any type of loved one, be it your signifiant other, family members, friends or pets. I am excited just to be able to be in the same part of the country as my boyfriend this Valentine’s day (he scurried off to Las Vegas for a fraternity conference last Valentine’s day, but I haven’t quite let him live it down just yet!) A gift is always appreciated, I realize, but I want to make sure it is meaningful, not just extravagant or expensive and used to “buy” feelings of love and happiness.

Make sure to keep an eye out for a blog post this weekend detailing everything I do during my Valentine’s day with my boyfriend and all of the fun adventures we get up to! I can’t wait to see how this holiday is supposed to be celebrated and I get to have a wonderful private day full of fun, love, romance, and excitement (and hopefully even some luck at the casinos!) And to all of my wonderful viewers out there, you are all my Valentines for coming by my page and showing me some love and support! Love you all!

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